Mirror, Mirror – What do I See? 镜子，镜子，告诉我？ When we meet someone new and feel distant, disconnected, or disgusted,it can be a great learning lesson to figure out what part of the person isbeing reflected in you. It’s simply just another way to create moreself-awareness. 当我们遇到陌生人并感到疏远或厌恶时，弄清楚别人的哪些特质在自己身上有所体现是非常有意义的一课，这也正是增强自我意识的另一个途径。 Mirror, Mirror – What do I See? 镜子，镜子，告诉我 A loving person lives in aloving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile ( 怀敌意的 , 敌对的 ) world. Everyone you meetis your mirror. Mirrors have a particularfunction. They reflect the image in front of them. Just as a physical mirrorserves as the vehicle to reflection, so do all of the people in our lives. When we see somethingbeautiful such as a flower garden, that garden serves as a reflection. In orderto see the beauty in front of us, we must be able to see the beauty inside ofourselves. When we love someone, it’s a reflection of loving ourselves. Oftentimes, when we meet someone new, we feel as though we “click”. Sometimes it’sas if we’ve known each other for a long time. That feeling can come fromsharing similarities. Just as the “mirror” orother person can be a positive reflection, it is more likely that we’ll notice itwhen it has a negative connotation ( 含义 ) . For example, it’s easy to remember times when we have met someone we’renor particularly crazy about. We may have some criticism in our mind about theperson. Frequently, when we dislike qualities in other person, ironically ( 说反话地 , 讽刺地 ) , it’s usually the mirror that’s speaking to us. I began questioning myselfeach time I encountered someone I didn’t particularly like. Each time, I askedmyself “What is it about that person that I don’t like?” And then “Is theresomething similar in me?” In every instance, I could see a piece of thatquality in me, and sometimes I had to get very introspective ( 内省 ) . When we meet someone newand feel distant, disconnected, or disgusted, it can be a great learning lessonto figure out what part of the person is being reflected in you. It’s simplyjust another way to create more self-awareness ( 自我意识 ) . 查看更多1个回答 . 5人已关注
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