今天看到一个幸福的女孩叙述: 她的BF向她父母请求娶他们 ...? 回复 8# realben don't make promise when you are not ready. explain to her, if she is the right one for you, she will understand. i always believe that, when make decision better listen to your heart first. many times, we wanna do good things to people but end into a bad result because we don't slow down and ask ourselve about what we really feel. when we want give a marriage promise which is a big commitment, we should ask our heart. it is comes from our heart, comes from true love, not because we have to, because we feel the responsibility, because want to make her/him happy. a rush marriage cannot give long love.查看更多