老王杂感之小明系列-012 You need a stop.？ 最近几日，奴家咋么会有这么多空闲之时呢。故多放些时间在盖德，和朋友们共同畅游，非常悦乎。 交功课啦： dayafter day, year after year, what is it that we are chasing? as we recklessly rush forward, what is it thatwe are missing? sometime somewhere, i stopped to reflect on whati have done and what i am doing. i suddenly realized, we can only but do what wecan do, give up what we cannot achieve, and love those who are deserving of ourlove. 根据我的经验，这里有一个中西方文化差异哦。和老外说，give up what we cannot achieve是会得到共鸣的，但是love those who are deserving of our love就不一定了。因为西方信仰的关系，所以他们的概念是爱所有人。they are more inclined to think "they should try to love everyone ... sometimes even those who do not deserve the love." 不管是不是他们真实意愿，大部分人至少会认同爱所有人的这个概念。 这个也是赛麒需要学习的，因为在这个爱所有人的问题上，我做不到啊做不到。对那些讨厌的，恨不得马上要他们消失。 查看更多
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